I don't personally find this accurate, but my own assessment of why I relate to certain characters isn't flattering.

I relate to Chidi for a lot of reasons other people do. I really want to do the right thing, but I have a lot of anxiety and I'm not good at making decisions.

The hard one, for me, is Tahani. I'm not very good at making friends. The people I would list as the best friends I have would not consider me much more than someone they occasionally don't mind being around (I'm not exaggerating, it's been hard coming to terms with this), and TBH I've been suffering from pretty major depression over the loneliness this causes.